Why do I do what I do when I do what I do? We see a focus on the quick pay-off, hit-and-run motivation driving so much of our life. Do whatever, bill the client, get a jolt of pleasure and ignore whether there is a higher purpose to our existence. Do I ask whether my conduct is proper in the long run? Is what I do helpful for humanity? My soul? My community?
I would argue that putting money, success or a moment of pleasure before wellness is a formula for disappointment and underachievement. Much better to do things for noble reasons. The fruit of this will certainly be a more positive sense of self and purpose.
Fortunately, or unfortunately, you reap what you sow. When we only concern ourselves with the short term, we get an immediate but non-sustainable bit of joy. Before you do something, speculate whether it is good for your longer-term goals. If yes, you will likely be rewarded with a more joyful and purposeful future.
I have also been so fortunate to teach students who became extremely successful in their chosen career. What distinguished them way back when I first encountered them was that they were fascinated and excited with commerce. They sought out their career for the right reason; it empowered and inspired them and now they are respected leaders in their communities.
Doing things for short term benefits is largely a zero-sum strategy. You get back an amount equal to what you give up. Do things for less noble reasons and you may get a short term pay-off, but in the longer term your reputation for integrity and honesty may be challenged.
Do things because it is good for others, the environment, or for a higher purpose. Over an extended period one of the most prized benefits will emerge, a good reputation. Others will see you as someone with integrity, someone they trust, want to do business with and be with.
Regularly consider whether your actions will improve or undermine your reputation. If your reputation is improved, your well-being will also flourish.
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