The pandemic has brought to my attention how differently individuals have reacted to the risks associated with Covid. At one end there are those that have taken the idea of social distancing to the extreme. A sense of anxiousness envelops them. Some others have an almost, ”What’s the problem?” perspective. Indifference describes them. And somewhere in-between most of us sit. Our reactions display different levels of anxiety and fear. Or posed another way, how much courage you have.
It is worth noting that you cannot be courageous unless you are also afraid: courage is about how you handle being frightened. Courage is not allowing fear to rule your decisions. Courage is about how you deal with uncertainty; do you run away or carefully consider the odds and alternatives and make an informed confident decision accordingly.
A world that does not require courage would be a world where nothing changes: a place of total certainty, no surprises, no mystery or adventure. There is no correct reaction to the challenges, but life outcomes are materially influenced by your “courage choices.”
The brain does not fully develop the part that manages risk taking until your late teens. One reason suggested is that being more fearless and courageous as a youngster gives us boundaries as to what works and what doesn’t. Later, when we become parents, this helps us provide saver environments for our own children. An important part of maturity is the lessons learned from your successful and unsuccessful life experiments and experiences of your youth.
How do you cope with fearful situations? Do you default to being afraid, or push to expand your comfort zone and sense of adventure? May I suggest being continuously more courageous is the way to go, but one step-at-a-time. Remember to learn from your successes and failures, don’t repeat your disappointments and adjust your risk-taking accordingly.
Note: Please get vaccinated: it is good for others (and yourself).
Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org
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