Trooper, a Canadian band from the 70’s wrote a wonderful song called: “We’re here for a good time (not a long time)”. For the longest of time that simple line was at the root of much that I did and indeed I did have some very good times. Back then it sounded like a good compass to direct my attention, but it does ring hollow now.
Somewhere over the past fifteen years I discovered the importance of purpose. I started to focus more on doing things because they were in line with my core values and intrinsic goals. Volunteering, designing my working duties and seeking out venues where I could encourage outcomes that really mattered to me became essential to my well-being. I started to look for opportunities to combine purpose with good times, and there were several.
I know it took many years, and many mis-steps, but eventually I was able to find a unique circle of competence where I could do things that were very purposeful and mattered to me. I looked at what I did well in my career: what were those things that I would willingly and eagerly do on weekends or evenings? I started to read more and think more deeply about my dreams and goals. Was there any common theme? How can I make a difference and make the world a better place? Something purposeful slowly emerged.
What distinguishes a good time from a purposeful time? Good times focus too much on immediate or short term pleasure. Good times exaggerate the importance of “JUST DO IT”, and can be rather selfish. Purpose considers well-being, others, the longer term and the consequences of what you JUST DID.
I would be the last person to suggest that you give up good times. Yes, be fanciful and carefree. Do cause some amazing memories. Absolutely, good times rock!! But also pause, and imagine how you can make a good time a BETTER TIME. A dose of purpose is all it takes.
Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org
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