Being recently retired and having an abundance of time, I often find myself procrastinating far too much. Add to this three month of lockdown and it is especially disappointing how little I can achieve in a day (or week). This is affecting my sense of well-being. Perhaps you can relate to my lethargy.
Not surprisingly, there is lots of advice out there about how to be more productive and overcome waning self-determination. Being a numbers person, I especially liked these two strategies to up my game:
The first strategy is “The 5 Second Rule”* popularized by Mel Robbins. This simple rule is that when you have an impulse to do something, you have five seconds to act upon the urge before your sub-conscious highjacks your plan and you start to delay. Before you know it, nothing happens. Whether it is getting out of bed and not hitting the snooze (for the second or third time), sending that email or completing that task the strategy is to Count backwards five, four, three, two, one, GO (or before) and act. Don’t hesitate and start coming up with excuses to delay.
The second suggestion is called the 10-10-10 rule.** The next time you are procrastinating, ask yourself how you will feel in 10 minutes, 10 hours and 10 days if you do (or don’t do) whatever it is you are stalling on. At the very least, if you do something that nagging feeling will be gone, and more likely that step in the right direction will make you day better.
The reason both these strategies work is because the brain has three imperatives (that we must defeat):
- The brain is locked in an epic battle with itself, between the instinct for the quickest reaction (emotion) and the most optimal reaction (logic).
- The brain wants as much pleasure as possible, as fast as possible; an absence of pain and discomfort will also do in most cases. Speed is of the essence for the brain.
- The brain never wants to sacrifice anything pleasurable. **
To be more productive we must slow the brain down, add logic and reason to the situation and sacrifice immediate pleasure for greater purpose later. Put another way, we must trick the brain into believing the future will be bigger and better than our natural instincts assume. Or follow the Nike suggestion, and JUST DO IT!!
Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org
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*: "The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage" by Mel Robbins
**: "Neuro-Discipline: Everyday Neuroscience for Self-Discipline, Focus, and Defeating Your Brain’s Impulsive and Distracted Nature" by Peter Hollins