Here’s a frightening thought and fact - the average human has between 12,000 and 70,000 thoughts per day! Or between 500 and 3,000 per hour. 85% of our thought are negative, and 95% are repetitive (as in we had the same thought yesterday and again and again).
I used to think that me and my thoughts were the same and I was my thoughts. Well, pick any number between 12 and 70 thousand thoughts per day, does that assumption sound reasonable? Not really. Our thoughts are just that, a less controllable response that is a reaction, observation, conjecture or feeling that comes out of the blue and goes nowhere. Picking up on this fact there are two important insights.
First, whereas we cannot effectively or directly control our immediate thoughts, we are not helpless or hopeless. I am my own THOUGHT POLICE! When you watch a violent or disturbing movie, read about untoward events, willingly associate with troublesome individuals and guess what – these inputs become part of our thoughts and thought patterns. Similarly if you mindfully seek out constructive and joyful circumstances then the frequency of unwelcome thoughts decreases and positive thoughts become more pronounced.
Second, whereas we are not our thoughts, we are our actions. What you do is a reflection of who you are. Watch your thoughts and note how some become actionable and others not. What is that trigger between thought and action. Observe it carefully. Too often the trigger is the trade-off and tension between immediate pleasure and longer term and more permanent wellness. Consider what urges you internally debate as you put the thought into a deed. Or what stops you from acting out a consider thought. Are you OK with these action monitors?
Taming so many thoughts is daunting assignment. However, one can over time turn the tide positively by watching and managing your thought input diet. Please actively monitor the medias (social, visual, print, audio) and ask whether this is a helpful or too many of the wrong thought calories. Healthier thoughts need healthier inputs and stimuli.
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