We seem to spend so much time doing that we forget we are human beings, not human doings. But how does one get from doing to being? By recognizing that the only thing we have is the present moment – the past is past, and the future is still ahead of us. We need to live in the NOW.
There are two cycles we are perpetually involved in: the doing and the being aspects of life. The DOING, DO, DONE loop of life is important but it should not overwhelm the BE, BEING sequence. Regularly one should acknowledge that actions and busyness are FINISHED, and it is time to smell the coffee and savour and relish the moment.
Just being in the moment means appreciating what has been done, being quiet, and being at peace. It means consciously stopping and evaluating before you go from one relentless task to another. That is what NOW is all about. Regularly taking an inventory of your blessings, achievements and progress settles the spirit and improves your well-being.
Forever pursuing tasks and doing more is exhausting and is well served with the occasional reflective moments. Maybe meditation is not your cup of tea but invent your own calming exercises. Setting aside chill out breaks recharges the brain, encourages creative thinking, problem solving and well-being.
Four of the ten positive emotions are about experiencing and being in the moment. They are amusement, awe, inspiration and interest. Being in the now means engaging your various senses to non-judgementally savour and capture whatever is around you. Challenge yourself to smile, find beauty and joy in what is going around you. There are so many grand things going on around and within you, but maybe you just aren’t seeing them.
Challenge your powers of observation to record the amusing, awesome, inspiring and interesting things about your present moment. You might find this very hard to begin with, but practice makes it easier, and it will improve your mood and probably your productivity too!
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