The psychiatrist Viktor Frankl wrote in his book “Man’s Search For Meaning”,
“He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how.”*
Frankl concluded that what mankind needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for some goal worthy of oneself. What s/he needs is not the discharge of tension at any cost, but the call of a potential meaning waiting to be fulfilled by oneself.
His famous book, ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’ written in 1946, tells the story of how he survived the Holocaust by finding personal meaning in the experience. This gave him the will to live through it. His view of life is based on the premise that man’s underlying motivator in life is a “will to find meaning, even in the most difficult of circumstances.”
Frankl pointed to research which indicated a strong relationship between “meaninglessness” and criminal behaviours, addictions and depression. Without meaning, people fill the void with hedonistic pleasures, power, materialism, hatred, boredom, or neurotic obsessions and compulsions. Some may also strive for Suprameaning, the ultimate meaning in life, a spiritual kind of meaning that depends solely on a greater power outside of personal or external control. While Frankl rarely touches on the topic of the pursuit of happiness, he is very concerned with satisfaction and fulfilment in life.**
Asking and answering the question “Why am I here?” as it relates to your life opens a wonderful internal debate as to what your personal purpose is. The clearer your personal mission statement is defined, the more likely life is to be fulfilling. There will be struggles and trade-offs to achieve your goals, but this tension is empowering.
So, what is your WHY and what are you going to do with and about your WHY??
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*: "Man's Search For Meaning: The classic tribute to hope from the Holocaust" by Viktor E Frankl. The US Library of Congress described the book as one of "the ten most influential books in the United States."
**: https://www.pursuit-of-happiness.org/history-of-happiness/viktor-frankl/