Do you often feel rushed and stressed?  Do you wonder where all that time went?  Do you imagine you are busier and have less leisure time than those of earlier generations?

Actual data tells an interesting story. British workers worked on average 1,813 hours per year in 1979, and in 2015 worked 1,674 hours per year; Canadians went from 1,841 hours to 1,482 hours over the same period; Americans from 1,829 to 1,790 hours and the Germans from 2,186 hours per year in 1979 to 1,371 hours per year in 2015.*  With the exception of pre-historic societies (who apparently are estimated to have worked 1,773 hours per year), no one has had more free time per year than ourselves, yet we often don’t feel relaxed or rested.  Why the dis-connect?  Why do we feel such time poverty?

There are lots of reason why we feel rushed and ill-at-ease with leisure and relaxation time.  Start with productivity.  The reason we have the extra time is because we are more effective and efficient with our working hours and we apply the same mindset to our free time. We want to maximize the output per hour of leisure, a contradiction in terms.  Can we multi-task and relax at the same time?  Not really, but we try none-the-less. 

‘Busy, rush, quick, fast, more’.  We seem to be addicted to activities that feed our anxious nature.  Are we afraid we may discover something about ourselves if we slow down?  What will others think if  we aren’t busy?!

Then there is TV, the 800-pound gorilla in the room, which on average we watch over 22.5 hours of every week, not including streaming services such as Netflix.  And afterwards, we confess watching TV is one of the least meaningful leisure activities we do.  Yes, TV does provide pleasure, but it is rather short on purpose, which is where the guilt comes from.   An excellent starting point to solve the ‘busy’ dilemma is to monitor media consumption. Often, this is where our leisure time gets drained.

‘Time perspective’ refers to whether you are typically living in and focusing on the present, the past, or the future and whether that focus is positive, neutral, or negative. When you have time out, are you focused on the present moment in a positive way or pondering/planning the past or future with a worrisome or anxious perspective?

If we want to benefit from our leisure time, the science suggests focusing on relationships, constructive experiences, acts of kindness (volunteering), slowing down (no multi-tasking), fitness, and personal growth.  As they say, smell the coffee and savour the moment.

Physically distance (when required or helpful), never socially distance.

Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org

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*:  Source: www.Clockify.me/working-hours

**:  Some of these ideas came from, Time for Life: The Surprising Ways Americans Use Their Time, by John Robinson, Geoffrey Godbey