Covid has, unfortunately, increased our worrying ability and potential.  The daily health warnings have become part of our news diet.  What shouldn’t we do today? What new risk is out there?  Health anxiety is the new normal for so many.  Is there a remedy for some of this endless and increasing anxiety? 

I will suggest one very useful anti-anxiousness strategy.  Change your perspective from worrying to wondering.  When the next caution comes out, rather than tensing up, start to ponder about the science behind the news flash and become curious and engaged.  Imagine the research behind the finding; consider the probability or likelihood that is event might affect you.  Is the risk one in a hundred, or more likely one in several tens of thousands?  

Wondering about these possibilities is empowering because the risk, once quantified, generally becomes rather smaller, often trivial and more manageable.  Wondering rather than worrying slows our thinking process down and allows us to put matters into perspective.  Fast, reflexive thinking hijacks our emotions and before you know it ‘Fight or Flight’ panic confronts us.

Worrying tends to be a defensive strategy, wondering is the opposite: putting us on the offensive and challenging simple solutions and conclusions to complex matters.  Wonder encourages awe and amazement; something new to think about.

Being cautious is a good idea but worrying too often goes beyond being prudent and becomes fearful.  When our worries do not materialize, are we grateful,  or do we forget our good fortune and speculate on something new to become anxious about? Mindfully wondering is a useful brake to this vicious and often pointless anxiety cycle.

Covid is an outstanding example of how science and calm leadership changed worrying into wonderful.  What was originally suggested would be a two year wait for a 60% effective vaccine. That became a one-year turnaround with an 80%+ efficacy.  If that isn’t wonderful, awesome and a blessing, the I don’t know what marvelous news might be.

Reframe and replace your worrying tendencies with a wondering, curious and wonderful mindset.  It will make your day so much more carefree.

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