One of the goals of mindfulness is to have greater calmness and clarity in one’s life; being positively serene.  The following paragraphs capture the dilemma and challenge of being in a peaceful place.

“Imagine a very still, clear pool of water. The water is quite deep, but very, very clear. Because the water’s so clear you can see absolutely everything at the bottom, making it appear shallow, even though it’s actually very deep. Now imagine sitting by the side of this water and throwing small pebbles into the middle. Start off quite slowly, just throwing them every now and then. You’ll notice that each new pebble creates a ripple on the surface of the water, and that it takes a little while for the water to then settle again. If you then throw another stone in before the water has completely settled, you create a new set of ripples that merges with the last. Now imagine throwing one stone after the next and seeing the entire surface of the water all stirred up at the same time. When the surface of the water looks like this, it’s almost impossible to see anything in the water at all, never mind anything at the bottom.

This image reflects the surface of our minds in many ways. Each new thought, like a pebble being thrown into the water, creates ripples on the surface. We’ve got so used to throwing these pebbles, so used to the disturbance on the surface of the water, that we’ve forgotten what still water looks like. We know it’s not quite right as it is, but it’s as if the more we meddle with the mind trying to sort it out, the more ripples we create. Needless to say, when the mind’s all stirred up like this, it’s almost impossible to see what’s happening and what’s hidden under the surface. Because of this we don’t have any insight into the nature of mind – of how and why we feel the way we do. So, without first calming the mind, it’s very difficult to have any clarity.” *

So how can we increase our calmness and get that essential clarity?  May I suggest through meditation (or prayer).  Perhaps now, with us in various stages of lock down and a surplus of time, might be an excellent time to try out and start a simple meditation practice. 

I found the book (see below) with this quote to be one of the best, pure meditation guide (without the Eastern religion bias).   Seek to be calm - a useful antidote to anxiety and boredom.

Reflection Source: www.Smallercup.org

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**: The Headspace Guide to... Mindfulness & Meditation: 10 minutes can make all the difference" by Andy Puddicombe